Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Like mother like daughter
Saturday, September 28, 2013
Curiosity did not kill the cat… rather it may have drove him MAD
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
L is for the way you LOOK @ Me….
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
ICE is the foundation of NICE
Sunday, October 9, 2011
Large Order of Beauty... 'al naturale'
☮ ♥ & ♫
Saturday, April 10, 2010
To be or NOT to be... Stupid
DISCLAIMER: The following Blog is contextually complicated in its tactics to hide the identities of the people involved. I ask only that you read it slowly in order to fully comprehend what is being said about whomever I am attempting to speak of.
They say that stupidity isn’t crime. [Though many of us would like to indict otherwise.] Sadly, neither is a broken heart or being a victim of someone’s cruel mind games.
One of my biggest pet peeves is people who act like someone or something that they are not…namely, people who are fake and two-faced. I’ve had both the pleasure and the misfortune in meeting a great deal of people, some whom tragically fall into this specific category of jerk-off. What tends to irritate me most about these common folk is the fact that I don’t understand how their thought processes are truly validated.
Picture this for instance. You haven’t been given the ability to speak to a former dear friend in approximately 3 years—and no, it’s not from the lack of trying on YOUR behalf.—This singleton is the type who refuses to acknowledge your whole existence and denies the fact that he or she has ever even known you. He or she is also incapable of making decisions for him or herself and goes about his or her day putting you on blast to make him or herself seem better off. In addition—and this by golly is the kicker—he or she makes it a point to avoid you at all costs even if you happen to be in the same area code. Long story short, he or she has “spotters.” The minute you are realm of reality that has the potential to cross paths, they run. By this we learn that even if you invest effort into something, no matter how sincere, there is no guarantee that you’ll see any results…
Scenario number two. Say perhaps that you are interested in a particular creature—go with your own specific preference of gender or sex here—and you make it a point to get to know, befriend, and intimately study this being. Let’s say that for the most part there seems to be some sort of indefinable yet undeniable connection. In addition, THIS particular being, likes to sit on his or her hands whilst playing an epically long game of yo-yo with your heart and its emotions. OK? I don’t think so. Just because you deny it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. Just because you intended it to mean something different, doesn’t meant that that’s the way it will be interpreted. Do yourself a favor buck-o, be honest and you might get something great out of it. But if you are truly not remotely interested…. Don’t continue to waste my or your time.
Stupidity; defined as the act of being tediously dull, lacking ordinary quickness and keenness of mind. Despite its clear definition, Stupidity still manages to maintain a variety of different forms; presumably any noun—proper or otherwise. Day in and day out, the American media feeds society a commercial form of stupidity. It subliminally influences the things people feel, think, and care about. It subconsciously convinces us that we need to look a certain way, date a certain type and believe a certain thing. Entertainment is no longer entertainment. It has become a sick embodiment of gossip and brainwashing; essentially, a paparazzo’s wet-dream. What happened to the days when the news consisted of something that actually had a direct impact on your life?
Though I’m not here to ignite a revolution, I’ve decided to make it a personal vendetta to get to the bottom of things. Long story short, I am going to continue to ask why…. In every aspect of life and its immediate surroundings…and If I don’t get an answer…. I will search for one until I do. You should do the same. Don’t turn your mind completely off just because it seems socially acceptable to do so. You have the right to have your voice heard and you have EVERY right to question why, so….. DO IT.
☮ ♥ & ♫
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Media, Msyogny and Myth, OH MY!
Last night I happened to stumble upon the most grotesque example of misogyny that I have seen in a great while. While most instances of this ideology [misogyny] are subliminal in nature, this was the most visibly obvious presentation. For those of you who are unaware of what the LFL is, let me lay it down for you. LFL stands for the Lingerie Football League. Yes, it is quite self explanatory in nature as far as what the “sport” is and what it entails…and quite honestly I’m disgusted. Ten different cities [some daring to represent whole STATES] have degraded their women into participating in this poor example of athletics. San Diego just happens to be a part of this practice alongside Los Angeles, Seattle, Dallas, Denver, Philadelphia, New York, Tampa, Chicago and Miami.
This organization embraces the idea of objectifying women. It makes it seem ok for other people, namely men, to view women in a way that makes them almost inhuman…practically like a mannequin. As I begrudged myself for even attempting to understand the LFL by watching a small portion of it last night I noticed something. As they panned the audience to show the organization’s support, 98% of them happened to be men; and of those 98%, approximately 60% were older than the 20-29 age range. The select women that happened to be in the audience seemed to be objectifying the players as well, however with a more admiring sense.
I happily applaud those who have chosen to take a stand against this injustice which is affecting women all around the world. These lies regarding beauty are being encompassed into media [TV shows, music, pictures and even dolls!] and on a constant basis being fed to young girls. However real artists like the very talented P!nk, have chosen to not only acknowledge but fight against it. Dove has also found their own way to combat these social ideals by launching a very successful NATURAL BEAUTY campaign.
I encourage men across the world to look for a woman who doesn’t have to WORK to be beautiful. A woman who is beautiful inside and out without make-up or a fake attitude/ body parts to play it off as real. The lord knows you will be happier with a woman that is genuine and natural compared to a woman that is not, anyway. Challenge yourselves to see beneath the skin and absorb the truth that is natural beauty. Give us “other” chicks a chance damn it. lol